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About Me: First and for most my name is Chris. I am 28 years old, 6 ’0, 285 lbs... With a football players build. I am in an open relationship and looking for guys to have fun with. But just because we play together does not mean that we can’t be friends and hang out. Life is more than skin deep and I love to have fun in life. I am an independent Business owner and do not have time for mind games. I am a smoker and I would like others that either enjoy it or smoke themselves. I like all kinds of music but I favor more of the Classic Rock To heavy Metal. I am looking for a good Man (or more) for play, within the age range of 22 to 60, that is comfortable within their own skin and within themselves....that knows themselves and can enjoy simple things from kissing to wild nights of hot sex that go on for hours. Passion or hard core both, are fun and I enjoy most things and expect someone that does, also.
What I am looking for: Someone that is independent and self-sufficient... a loving and enjoyable person that has a sharp mind, that can have great conversions, that is spiritual with some form of ethics. Someone that can deal with a multi-partner relationship. Free and creative with a passion for life. Wiccan would be a plus, but not required. A person that enjoys food, movies, new experience and quiet nights at home...talking and sharing. Someone that understands basic public responsibilities and that is somewhat of a brainiac. Someone that is moderately furry to shaved. But Also Someone that is Butch/Masculine because if I wanted someone that acted like a woman I would be with a woman.
Non-sexual Interests: Writing Poetry, Reading, Music(except rap),Outdoors Activities, Spiritual enlightening, Hanging with friends, Cooking, Gaming, etc.
Sexual Interests: Smoke Play, Bdsm, Master and slave , Romance, heavy touching, full body contact, Affection and Kissing, Bondage and much more... Feel free to ask if your pleasure is not listed here.
Turn-Ons: Butch/Aggressive Men, Smoking, Man Scents, Uniforms(Includes Leather, Blue-collar men, Watersports, Passionate Love making, Intellectual Conversation( Let Face it if you can’t hold a conversation of some intelligence that does not have to do with sex than you might as well move on), Furry To extremely hairy but well groomed( If you look like I have to take you to the grooming parlor or have to use a vacuum on your ass then definitely not the type for me), Well hung men( If you have a penis that looks like it should be on a baby then friends only…Cause I like to feel it when I am fucked), Love roleplaying games,etc. Feel free to ask for more.
Turn-Offs: -Puzzled by dudes who are turned off by smoking, yet want to get together. I’m a smoker to the end if you can’t deal with that then I can’t deal with you.
-If you are looking for someone that will dress in woman clothing and be a sissy boy, Move on Because I am a butch pup and I like my men to be that way as well.
-Guys that play mind games or like drama in their lives....sorry!... I don’t like wasting my time on shit that we all should have learned from middle school. If you got stuck in that mode, then move on...
-No alcoholics, drunks, drug users, junkies or losers ( ie. Guys Looking for a free ride).
-Not into guys that look like they are going to pass away while we are playing, so if you are maintained by life support devices, wheelchairs, or have other bodily functions controlled by a device...instead of your nature body...sorry!... I am still young and not into grandfather types.
-Mentally ill people... IF YOU HAVE MENTAL PROBLEMS that you refuse to get help with or think that TV stars are sending you Secret messages or god has chosen you for a special secret mission...I’m not your type of guy. I DEAL IN THE REAL WORLD!!!
-If you have a problem with animals (cat’s birds), then we will not work, for my fur children will come after you and you will need instant help.
-IF you feel the need to be in continue contact and to text 500 times/day, understand that I am a in a relationship and running a very demanding business...but wanting to add someone... not an attached life form to my hip.
-If your dick is smaller than your pinky but your only a top...[----]e on, I am a bottom and I like to feel it when I am getting drilled-
I will talk to most... but please understand, I know what I like and can and cannot deal with. I ’m very up front and have taken the time to list my deal breakers. If you feel that your wants and needs are not mutual, then I hope you find what you’re looking for... but know that I will ONLY chat with you.
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That‘s a hard question. its like asking me why i like guys...
i was made this way. i was always heavy set, an had a larger then life attitude. all the girls love me as a friend because im easy to talk to and im fun to hug. grins
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I'm not real hairy, but tall good looking, and have facial hair. I like guys who are hairy and have some muscle, not too heavy/only if it matches your body type... like some of the worlds strongest men are a bit chubby...lol!, I'll always reply if you write...
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Back on the market after 10yrs in a monogamous relationship!
I am a tad bit of a submissive top in the sheets but am very forthcoming and strong willed otherwise. I have a soft spot for bears, short hair is always a plus. I have a 'thing' about intellect. I require my date be able to carry on a conversation on a wide variety of topics. I10d to be long winded... but luckily that is not limited to speech only.
Gaming is my addiction. I10d to be a home body, spending my time either reading or playing WoW. I do go to the gym. I started in Feb of 2007 and have lost 45lbs from then to now. I have started a new regimen that has given me some impressive, for me, results. So while I may not be a beefy muscle bear yet... I am well on my way.
Believe it or not I work as a bouncer on some nights so date planning should be made with that in mind.
I am looking for a guy born within the same decade that I was. Basically 1970-1980. I am into muscle bears but not gym rats. Big arms and a gut are a surefire way to get me interested. Not into overly feminine nor thin fellows. Just a personal preference... I know what I like to see. Stocky jocks should get to the front of the line. I learned my lesson in the 10yrs I was with my ex. Sexual compatibility is a must. I am a sub top... you should be an aggressive power bottom. Just being realistic. I am not looking for a1 night stand. I want to date, ie. test drive then lease with an option to buy. (I love that analogy) I really am a fun loving guy with a lot of love and affection to give. Not too hard on the eyes either.
So to recap:
- I know what commitment is. Did it for 10yrs.
- I am recently single, but had my rebound so thats done.
- I am looking for a bear between the height of 5'5" - 6'4"
- I am looking for a bear that is not too heavy but not too small. Skinny or 'weak' or bodybuilder need not apply. (sorry but I know what I want and a bodybuilder is not a muscle bear). Muscle bears or stocky jock types to the front.
- I am looking for a bear that is a power bottom.
- I am looking for a bear that is between the ages of 27/28 - 37/38 (my ex was 13years older than me, I want to try someone born in the same damn decade this time... tho older is fun for non dating fun and don't discount a mature bear. They can teach us youngens a thing or2. Trust me.)
- I am looking for a bear that is affectionate and likes to give and recieve loads of affection.
There you have it. I know what I want and I am willing to wait for it. I can be terrifyingly patient. If you match that description please drop a line. We will go on a date and see what happens.
If you need visual reference for what I like to look at check out guys like Aaron Lewis (recent pics he is a cute bear) or Kevin James or Kevin Smith (Silent Bob) or Esera Tu[----]o (Gay Hawaiian Football player oh so damn hot)
I know I am asking for a lot, but I settled for less for 10yrs. I will not do it again.
I will post this ad until Mr.Right comes along and reads it. (P.S. I do have tattoos and will be getting more. If you don't like body art on your bf then I am soooo not the right guy for you, because I will have a lot when I am done.)
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